102 days after his wife’s death, Patton Oswalt describes grief as only he can.

“Thanks, Grief,” Oswalt begins, before describing grief in a number of ways, trying to put into words what it feels like to lose your partner suddenly and without warning (emphasis mine):”Thanks for making depression look like the buzzing little bully it always was. Depression is the tallest kid in the 4th grade, dinging rubber bands off the back of your head and feeling safe on the playground, knowing that no teacher is coming to help you.But grief? Grief is Jason Statham holding that 4th grade bully’s head in a toilet and then fu**ing the teacher you’ve got a crush on in front of the class. Grief makes depression cower behind you and apologize for being such a di**.If you spend 102 days completely focused on ONE thing you can achieve miracles. Make a film, write a novel, get MMA ripped, kick heroin, learn a language, travel around the world. Fall in love with someone. Get ’em to love you back.But 102 days at the mercy of grief and loss feels like 102 years and you have sh** to show for it. You will not be physically healthier. You will not feel “wiser.” You will not have ‘closure.’ You will not have ‘perspective’ or ‘resilience’ or ‘a new sense of self.’ You WILL have solid knowledge of fear, exhaustion and a new appreciation for the randomness and horror of the universe. And you’ll also realize that 102 days is nothing but a warm-up for things to come.”

Source: 102 days after his wife’s death, Patton Oswalt describes grief as only he can.

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